Forgive or not to forgive that's the question

Forgiveness is God's Plan of action to bid you free of turmoil, regret, bitterness and lonliness.

To forgive or just forget that is the question.

I want to establish that forgetting is not forgiving that soul that once wronged you. Let's just get that straight. Just because you promised to never bring up the incidence that hurt your feelings, embarrassed you or had inflicted damage on your psyche don't mean all is well with you an that individual that harmed you. **Healing needs to occur..

1. You need to acknowledge your hurt and address it.
2. Next you need to make a conscious decision to accept what happened, move on from it and figure things out.
3. Ask God to help you through whatever caused you grief induced by someone.
4. Tell that person that you forgive them and try your best not to rehash the situation, Ever!
Easier said then done...Time will tell...
*When you forgive you grow, so let go and take you power back. 
In Order to obtain rest and obtain peace from within you need to operate in forgiveness, Always...
For your well being,
Life will become better once you learn to heal yourself from the inside out. Make an effort to show yourself friendly towards those that wronged you. -This act of kindness will help...


You won't ever forget what happened. That incident shaped, molded and taught you something.
* In the Future, be vigilant, keep your guard up and analyse sensitive situations.
* Remember, You can't hold other's accountable for things that happened in your past or to you.
* Not everyone is out to get you. Some people are sent here to help you along your journey in life. *But you will never give good people the chance to assist you if you are always looking for someone to mistreat, use you or hurt you.
* Ask God for Wisdom and Discernment when allowing people to get close you. He'll lead you in the right direction or tell you to think first, pause or proceed with caution.

*Remember, True Forgiveness is a form of real love. At one time you cared for the one who hurt you. Now you may have to help each other by first forgiving...




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