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Forgive or not to forgive that's the question

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Forgiveness is God's Plan of action to bid you free of turmoil, regret, bitterness and lonliness. To forgive or just forget that is the question. I want to establish that forgetting is not forgiving that soul that once wronged you. Let's just get that straight. Just because you promised to never bring up the incidence that hurt your feelings, embarrassed you or had inflicted damage on your psyche don't mean all is well with you an that individual that harmed you. ** Healing needs to occur.. 1. You need to acknowledge your hurt and address it. 2. Next you need to make a conscious decision to accept what happened, move on from it and figure things out . 3. Ask God to help you through whatever caused you grief induced by someone. 4. Tell that person that you forgive them and try your best not to rehash the situation, Ever! Easier said then done...Time will tell... *When you forgive you grow, so let go and take you power back.  In Order to obt...

Limit the excuses

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We can be our worst enemies in regards to the limits we place over ourselves. How many times have you decided you couldn't do something before you've even attempted the task? If you have answered this question honestly it's probably at least two or three times you can recall and that's just too many in my book.  Remember our only true limitations are those which exist past the efforts you've already exhausted, without yielded results. Have you tried to do everything within in your realm of possibilities and beyond to see a particular task to completion? If not try-try and try again. Often times we use any excuse to delay the inevitable. Such as, P aying bills, getting to work on time, calling someone back and moving forward. Complacency is a necessary evil that exist when you are trying to move to the next level. ( You can't let it drain you of your goals resist the temptation of throwing pity parties. ) Some things are destined to distrac...